Sunday, September 26, 2010

First Day of School Pics/ Journal Entries on a Sunday


(This Picture  was taken with our camera that has a temperamental shutter thing)
Saxton, what did you learn today?  (Sunday)
I learned about... forgot.  I keep forgetting! 
What do you want to write in your journal?
I love my mom and dad and they are so good to me.
What are your favorite things to do?
FISHING!  Hunting, Climbing mountains, swimming, running, exercising, play with my family and friends and cousins, and I love my family.



Ellie:
I have one of the two minute talks for the primary program, and I learned that it's hard to breathe in a plastic bag for a while.  You can't breathe in very easily.  I worked on my Faith in God and I passed off one and I'm going to work on some others.  And I had a very good day.  The End


Brinley:

Hmm. Hey!  Mooomm.  (she is watching me type)...Well, I went to church and took a talk in my primary, and in class at church we had a picnic.  And then at the end of the day we were all chasing Dad and trying to tackle him.  I had my shoes off outside.  And I was chasing him in bare feet all over because he was on the golf cart with Saxton.  Um, let's see here.. then I came in and I read a book and got jammies on and brushed my teeth.  And now I am telling you in my journal.



Nathan:

I goed potty.  And I got my jammies on and didn't brush teeth.  I goed to church and I learned at Sister Guthrie's class about animals.  And I'm good to them.  I need to brush my teeth right now because I didn't.  And I am thirsty.

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Canning

Last year I didn't can peaches, and my family sorely missed having them.  So this year I determined to do it, no matter if I had to make a special trip to Brigham City for the produce. 
So, this week my sister and I canned 80 quarts of these babies:


We were pretty stoked by day's end.

And today I made up 16 pints of salsa:

These are not pic's of my stuff, just illustrations.  I'm a bit disappointed in the salsa, though.  I was so excited to save money on this stuff, and I don't think I even like it very much.  Maybe it will be good in other things, though, like taco soup?  Let's hope it wasn't a waste.  I'm plum tuckered!

Monday, September 20, 2010

Unexpected Outcomes

Children are naturally egocentric.  I know this.  But lately my children have seemed especially so, and so I wanted to give a Family Home Evening lesson on Selfishness.

Here was the plan:

Sing "I'm trying to be like Jesus"
Start with a concentration game.  4 pictures of the Savior doing something unselfish, 4 scripture references, and they would match them up. 
Then a role play.  Dad and I acting out a conversation in which one of us is constantly turning the discussion back to himself. tee hee.
Then a discussion on selfishness/wanting the limelight.  Go back to the pictures/stories of Jesus and ask, "selfish or unselfish?" with each one. 
Challenge children to think of others.

Here was the reality:

I obviously planned too long a lesson for children 10 and under.  After the game, which they were pretty attentive during,  they were poking each other and giggling, Saxton was tearing up a tissue he had recently used, Nathan was sitting like he was in meditation, eyes closed, saying "Ohmmmmmm",   "Ketchuuuuup", (who knows where that came from!), Brinley was tying herself in knots. 
Ellie was anxious to finish sentences and explain things.

So I waaaay overshot the mark on that one.

I take comfort in the following quote from Elder Bednar:

"As our sons were growing up, our family did what you have done and what you now do. We had regular family prayer, scripture study, and family home evening. Now, I am sure what I am about to describe has never occurred in your home, but it did in ours.
Sometimes Sister Bednar and I wondered if our efforts to do these spiritually essential things were worthwhile. Now and then verses of scripture were read amid outbursts such as “He’s touching me!” “Make him stop looking at me!” “Mom, he’s breathing my air!” Sincere prayers occasionally were interrupted with giggling and poking. And with active, rambunctious boys, family home evening lessons did not always produce high levels of edification. At times Sister Bednar and I were exasperated because the righteous habits we worked so hard to foster did not seem to yield immediately the spiritual results we wanted and expected.
Today if you could ask our adult sons what they remember about family prayer, scripture study, and family home evening, I believe I know how they would answer. They likely would not identify a particular prayer or a specific instance of scripture study or an especially meaningful family home evening lesson as the defining moment in their spiritual development. What they would say they remember is that as a family we were consistent."

November 2009 Ensign

We'll try again next week, with more realistic expectations!

Sunday, September 19, 2010

What's for dinner?

I thought I'd make a list of things I normally make for dinner, 
along with Cory's rating of the item.  He has expensive tastes.
(5 is the best)




Chicken
4 Chicken Alfredo
3 Sweet & Sour Chicken Stir Fry
3 Chicken Tetrazinni
4 BBQ Chicken (Marinated)
3 Chicken Pillows
3 Hawaiian Haystacks
5 Chicken Enchiladas
4 Chicken Cordon Bleu
3 Buttermilk Chicken
Ground Beef
2 Meat Loaf
2 Spaghetti
2 Stroganoff
2 Taco Soup
1 Tater tot casserole
5 Hamburgers
5 Navajo Tacos
4 Regular Tacos
Beef
4 Roast
2 Stew
5 French Dip Sandwiches
Pork
5 Pork Chops
4 Roast
3 Country Style Ribs
Veggie
5 Chef Salad
2 Potato Bar
1 Nacho Bar
Ham
1 Ham & Bean Soup
4 Stromboli
4 Pizza
3 Ham Wraps
Soups
4 Chicken Noodle
3 Creamy Chicken Noodle
2 Chili
1 Broccoli
3 Mushroom
4 Clam Chowder
3 Chicken & Dumplings
2 Potato Soup
Pasta
2 Macaroni & Cheese
5 Lasagne
Turkey
5 Marinated Turkey
3 Turkey Sandwiches
5 Turkey and potatoes
    Seafood
2 Trout
3 Salmon
4 Halibut
5 Shrimp & Crab
2 Tuna Casserole
2 Tuna Braid
2 Creamed Tuna on Toast




Why I was called to the Tacoma, Washington mission in 1996

I have wondered how missionaries receive their calls.  I assumed that the leaders of our church were given stacks of paper with missionary information, that they prayed over that stack, and then sent the whole group to the same mission.  I don't know why I thought it worked that way, but I was wrong.
The Savior's ministry is about individual people.  The other day I was listening to an interview with Elder Bednar, and he spoke of the fact that the Apostles do not consider themselves to be "over" a "large corporation".  Their call is to minister to the one.  As he travels the world on assignment, he tries to find the one person whom he is to minister to in each place. 
Isn't that beautiful? 
And so continues the story of calling missionaries.  Here is a quote from a recent General Conference at which Ronald A. Rasband spoke to the subject:
With the encouragement and permission of President Henry B. Eyring, I would like to relate to you an experience, very special to me, which I had with him several years ago when he was a member of the Quorum of the Twelve. Each Apostle holds the keys of the kingdom and exercises them at the direction and assignment of the President of the Church. Elder Eyring was assigning missionaries to their fields of labor, and as part of my training, I was invited to observe.
I joined Elder Eyring early one morning in a room where several large computer screens had been prepared for the session. There was also a staff member from the Missionary Department who had been assigned to assist us that day.
First, we knelt together in prayer. I remember Elder Eyring using very sincere words, asking the Lord to bless him to know “perfectly” where the missionaries should be assigned. The word “perfectly” said much about the faith that Elder Eyring exhibited that day. 
As the process began, a picture of the missionary to be assigned would come up on one of the computer screens. As each picture appeared, to me it was as if the missionary were in the room with us. Elder Eyring would then greet the missionary with his kind and endearing voice: “Good morning, Elder Reier or Sister Yang. How are you today?” 
He told me that in his own mind he liked to think of where the missionaries would conclude their mission. This would aid him to know where they were to be assigned. Elder Eyring would then study the comments from the bishops and stake presidents, medical notes, and other issues relating to each missionary.
He then referred to another screen which displayed areas and missions across the world. Finally, as he was prompted by the Spirit, he would assign the missionary to his or her field of labor.
From others of the Twelve, I have learned that this general method is typical each week as Apostles of the Lord assign scores of missionaries to serve throughout the world.
Having served as a missionary in my own country in the Eastern States Mission a number of years ago, I was deeply moved by this experience. Also, having served as a mission president, I was grateful for a further witness in my heart that the missionaries I had received in New York City were sent to me by revelation.
After assigning a few missionaries, Elder Eyring turned to me as he pondered one particular missionary and said, “So, Brother Rasband, where do you think this missionary should go?” I was startled! I quietly suggested to Elder Eyring that I did not know and that I did not know I could know! He looked at me directly and simply said, “Brother Rasband, pay closer attention and you too can know!” With that, I pulled my chair a little closer to Elder Eyring and the computer screen, and I did pay much closer attention!
A couple of other times as the process moved along, Elder Eyring would turn to me and say, “Well, Brother Rasband, where do you feel this missionary should go?” I would name a particular mission, and Elder Eyring would look at me thoughtfully and say, “No, that’s not it!” He would then continue to assign the missionaries where he had felt prompted.
As we were nearing the completion of that assignment meeting, a picture of a certain missionary appeared on the screen. I had the strongest prompting, the strongest of the morning, that the missionary we had before us was to be assigned to Japan. I did not know that Elder Eyring was going to ask me on this one, but amazingly he did. I rather tentatively and humbly said to him, “Japan?” Elder Eyring responded immediately, “Yes, let’s go there.” And up on the computer screen the missions of Japan appeared. I instantly knew that the missionary was to go to the Japan Sapporo Mission.
Elder Eyring did not ask me the exact name of the mission, but he did assign that missionary to the Japan Sapporo Mission.
Privately in my heart I was deeply touched and sincerely grateful to the Lord for allowing me to experience the prompting to know where that missionary should go.
At the end of the meeting Elder Eyring bore his witness to me of the love of the Savior, which He has for each missionary assigned to go out into the world and preach the restored gospel. He said that it is by the great love of the Savior that His servants know where these wonderful young men and women, senior missionaries, and senior couple missionaries are to serve. I had a further witness that morning that every missionary called in this Church, and assigned or reassigned to a particular mission, is called by revelation from the Lord God Almighty through one of these, His servants."  Ensign, May 2010

I can't tell you, as a returned missionary, how fascinating and awesome that was for me to read.  Mission calls are definitely given one at a time, with the Savior presiding over the whole process.

When I received my call, I was a little disappointed.  Tacoma, Washington was a days' drive from my home in Idaho.  I was prepared for something exotic, like Brazil!  (I really wanted to learn Spanish on my mission, so I could double major in it when I came home.  The Lord taught me you do not serve a mission to pick up a double major!)  
I think my mother's prayers trumped mine.  She didn't want me to go anywhere where I could get a tapeworm or some other disease, she wanted me to be safe, and she wanted to be able to easily send mail back and forth.  
Tacoma, Washington was the most beautiful area I could have imagined, and I met some of the most wonderful people in the world, including, of course, my eternal companion.  He was an enthusiastic and record-setting missionary whom I didn't look at in a romantic way (!) until after he came to Utah State and I set him up on a date with a friend and got a little jealous that she was spending time with him and not me.
But that is another story for another time.
Just thought I'd let you know about that cool mission calling experience, in case you hadn't learned about it.

Saturday, September 18, 2010

A Constant Turning

Turning and turning goes the wheel of my days
I seem to see the same scenes often,
Dishes and toys and constant picking up,
Cycling around like the clothes in the washing machine...
But through the cycles the faces change and grow and thin,
My children not stopping for me--
I want them to not grow!
I must stop for them--
to listen
to sing
to pray
to support
As they cycle ever upward...

Friday, September 10, 2010

Raspberries

I love raspberries.  Partly because of their delicious flavor.  I love the way they taste with sugar and cream, in a shake, in a smoothie, in jam.  They taste like summer.
I also love them for sentimental reasons.  They make me think of my Grandma Satterthwaite.  When we would visit her home, we would have a big meal at lunch time (dinner) and then a simple meal in the evening (supper).  Often this simple meal would include a dish of raspberries Grandma had canned.  When I was in Jr. High, I spent a week at Grandma's so I could earn a little money picking berries at Hildt's berry farm.  Grandma would wake me early (5:30) and she would have homemade toast (so good!) with butter and cocoa ready for me.  She would give me a can to pick berries into, along with a strap she had made from pantyhose so that it would be soft around my waist.  She had attached a clip to the strap so I could clip it to my bucket handle and then unclip it to pour my berries into the flat.  She told me I needed to "pick clean", which meant I shouldn't leave any berries on the bush, and "pick fast", because we earned money depending on how many flats we filled.  She also warned me to avoid the temptation to eat the berries, because they were "like gold".
Then she would send me out into the still dark morning, where my ride was waiting to take me to the farm.  On some days she would go with me, but for the most part it was quiet work for me because I didn't know the other pickers well and I would just stay to my row, thinking "pick fast, pick clean, don't eat the berries".  Of course I snitched a few, because I wasn't strong enough to eat none, but her admonitions helped me to do my best.  She told me some people would fill the bottoms of their flats with dirt so they could make money faster.  That made us both sad.  I'm sure it wasn't very common.
One distinct memory I have is picking across from a girl (we were both picking from the same bush, she was on the other side, and I could see her through the leaves).  My stomach growled SO LOUD  it sounded like a bear!  I was so embarrassed.  I wondered if she thought I growled at her.  Of course I didn't know her, and so I didn't say anything.  Fortunately she was moving one way and I was moving another, so we weren't across from each other long.  I don't think I picked that particular part very clean, but I did fast!
So, a few weeks ago a friend from church offered our family the chance to come and pick in her very beautiful berry patch.  I have been so busy that I kept thinking I'd do it later.  Our business, the children's activities, my church work, etc. have all been pretty encompassing for me.  Last week I had the thought, "you should go and pick berries today, just for a little while".  I pushed that thought away with what seemed to be very pressing projects and goals, and I couldn't see bringing the children out there-- it just didn't seem feasible.
Today I finally took the children out.  I was so excited and brought three buckets with me.  When I got to the patch I looked at the bushes and almost cried because I could tell there had been a LOT  of beautiful berries on them.  They were shriveled and dark purple.  THOUSANDS of berries that had been beautiful and were now past their prime.  We picked about 1 1/2 cups of berries today, but if we had come last week before the cold snaps hit the area, we would have filled the buckets without a problem.  BOO HOO I really did shed a tear or two over this experience.
So the spiritual analogy?  Don't put off a prompting.  There is a time when things are ripe, and it doesn't last long.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Amanda's Yummy Cornbread

My sister loves to cook.  She finds great joy in serving her family in the kitchen and preparing yummy things.  Here is a recipe I enjoy of hers.  We eat half of it with a dinner and the other half in the morning with butter and syrup!

1 c. butter melted
1 c. sugar
4 eggs
1 t. soda
2 c. butter milk (may substitute milk with 2 T vinegar)
2 c. flour
2 c. cornmeal
1 t. salt

Combine milk and soda, set aside.  Mix butter and sugar, then add eggs and beat well.  Add milk mixture.  Combine flour, cornmeal, & salt.  Add dry ing. to wet.  Blend.  Bake in a 9X13 pan at 375 for 32 minutes.  Yummy!

Monday, September 6, 2010

Around the World in a Minute....



Brinley's 2nd Grade performance
Grandma Unsworth came for Grandparents day
Grandma Sue too...
And Great Grandma Wee Wee!
Ellie in the dinosaur mural we made for an animal play...
Brinley in another part of the dinosaur
Saxton
Trae my nephew as a caveman
Grandma Gay
Brin the Kangaroo!
Our gorgeous Quincie at Jr. Miss...
Saxton with her "glass slipper"
Aww.
Best part of the night!
Cory brought her roses....
With her cute sisters...guess which one is her mom!
She had the best crowd!
This is the girl I mentored.
I lost a tooth!
Getting ready for the dance recital!
Fun times with cousins!
Taking down decorations is fun after it's all over!
Cute little performers!
Nathan turned 4 and got a Big Wheel...
Saxton played T ball
That little girl is doing just what I used to do on the ball field..
The youth came and taste tested our pizza...
they were honestly a lot of help!
and fun!
We paid a lot of money for these guys to install a new big electrical line!
Chainsaw for Fathers Day
Making leis for Luau Weekend
Our Sierra is so limber!
A hike up Centennial trail
A visit from our cousins from Japan
Fun little train ride at the fair
The dress-up ring leader
So many faux pas going on here...
A determined leprechaun?
Our real "Mr. Potato Head" contest
And our winner is!
Launching potatoes into the river...
Or just eating them raw, whatever you prefer.
Of course potato sack races!

Ellie was a the cutest one in this version of "The Tortoise VS. the Hare"


Support from Brothers
The cast
pony rides at our friends' house.  Saxton was scared....
Nathan was thrilled...
Ellie was nervous...
This is Saxton's best friend Charlee.
Some poster children for one of our lodges
Geocaching with cute Auntie Tricia
Lots of various cousins at the Richey Reunion
Close Cousins
I love my adventure girl.
And my grasshopper finding boy.
This was the week when Nathan officially became fearless of the water, thanks to his dad.
This is Cory's cousin Kenny, who is a little kid in a big guy's body.  Lot's of fun to be with, especially on his first visit to Lagoon!
Don't you think pictures on a carousel are so very cute?  He was glad he got the frog...
Cousin Abraham
Sweet and fun Grandma Wee Wee
The fountain at Lagoon.  This is the very spot where Nathan decided to urinate while I was visiting with my mother in law for a few seconds.  I looked up and discovered the horrifying scene and wished I had acted like I had no idea whose child that was :)
I love him a lot.
Water balloons AND the Lake!  It doesn't get any better...
My dear Grandpa Jolley came to visit all of us at Bear Lake.  He's a champ.  This probably wasn't the best pic.  To post...
Pappa Joe's new dune buggy takes us on fun rides!
No Words for this one...
They make up the best fun!
Going to a dance...
Playing doctor!  A very concerned hospital staff surrounds the patient.
She looks miserable.
Our helpers for the "Princess Tea Party"
Having tea and crackers...
With princess Sierra
A random cute camper
They played pin the kiss on the frog...
And made crowns.  Note to self:  This was messy due to the little tiny papers that they peeled off of the stick on jewels...
Ellie was surprised on her birthday...
We redecorated her room :)
New bedspread and paint...
New curtains
Old(er) quilts I had made with Grandma Jolley, repurposed into closet curtains
New chair with a pillow Grandma made and book from cousins...
It was really fun to do this for her!  It feels a lot better in there now-- it was quite the hodge podge before!
We had a boiling pot for dinner... yummm
Someone found the camera...
This is my really cute son.
Huckleberry picking with my sweet young women just after I was released as being their teacher :(
A good huckleberry picker always comes out with a purple bum...
I have been called to serve as our ward Primary President and this is the picture for our first monthly newsletter....
And this is my wise and level headed 1st Counselor Vanessa Harris
And this is my fun and talented 2nd counselor Kim Waite
And this is my on-the-ball and organized secretary Roxanne Symons
Nathan gave Ellie these bracelets.
We did science experiments on the campground...
If you drop a drop of food coloring in milk, and then drop some dish soap next to that drop, something cool happens!  Whole milk works best.  The soap repels the fat right around it, causing the colors to move with it.  Fun. 
A camper who made a really cool shirt.
The V.
The X.
The vertical Stripe.
The one of a kind masterpiece, thanks to Ellie's help.
The children were doing tricks on the bean bag.  The coolness of the trick determined what color of sticker the others put on their face.  The boys were abundantly rewarded.


Then Ellie came up with this number...   Every once in a while her inner creative self must be made manifest in displays such as these!

Here she is.... writing thank you notes...in style.



I am tired.  It has been a wonderful summer.  I am now ready for our peaceful Fall.  

P.S. we are having a baby boy in January.  He is moving allllll the time.